Negative views on online dating

23-Jan-2020 11:33

Theres no way there can be a strong bond of trust in these types of relationships until the initial face to face meeting because so many people lie about their life off of the internet.Joe Schwartz believes that people cannot trust each other in a relationship until time has proved that person reliable (Schwartz 124).For example, when filling out a profile for an online dating service most daters will exaggerate their positive attributes to make them more dateable (just as the woman above did).This dual personality leads to trust issues in online relationships.According to Joe Schwartz there are five different types of people that register for dating services: the seeker, nester, hormone, butterfly, and dabbler.The dabbler is just filled with curiosity and does not have any real interest in dating, whereas the nester is primarily interested in finding their soul mate and settling down.According to Barnes, people dating on the net are less likely to be faced with their partners faults and because of this they are not dating the complete person therefore being more susceptible to the fantasy.Tim Berners-Lee, creator of the World Wide Web, believed that the web should be used as a mirror to reflect real life and not as a completely different world.

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For example, if I meet someone on and we develop our relationship online none of my friends in the real world would ever have to know about it; the only way my friends would find out is if I told them myself.This woman, though she wanted to believe that her lover was a man, was still worried that he might have lied about his gender and they were in a very serious relationship.A couple that has been dating for years in the real world dont question basic information such as gender therefore there cant possibly be any trust in online relationship: A disadvantage of online dating is deception (Barnes 139).Considering the same multitude of purposes exist in the online realm of dating as well as the real world shows that there are just as many misunderstandings and the same amount of hurt feelings.Lynn Schofield Clarks research with teens showed that online relationships provoke an excessive amount of hurt feelings because different intentions are not voiced as quickly as they are in real world relationships.

For example, if I meet someone on and we develop our relationship online none of my friends in the real world would ever have to know about it; the only way my friends would find out is if I told them myself.This woman, though she wanted to believe that her lover was a man, was still worried that he might have lied about his gender and they were in a very serious relationship.A couple that has been dating for years in the real world dont question basic information such as gender therefore there cant possibly be any trust in online relationship: A disadvantage of online dating is deception (Barnes 139).Considering the same multitude of purposes exist in the online realm of dating as well as the real world shows that there are just as many misunderstandings and the same amount of hurt feelings.Lynn Schofield Clarks research with teens showed that online relationships provoke an excessive amount of hurt feelings because different intentions are not voiced as quickly as they are in real world relationships.BBC news reports that out Japan had its highest number of crimes related to online dating services: Almost 800 crimes in which victims were contacted through online dating sites have been reported since January, more than 70% of which involved sex with teenage girls (BBC News, par. This article also talked about how there is no proven way to regulate Internet dating.